Posted 2016-October-27, 13:27
First, welcome back Mike. As usual, I may not agree with all of what you're saying, but it is a pleasure to read, and a challenge to not agree (sometimes a challenge to agree).
I do have one correction, however: a trigger warning is not "to announce to the audience that the topic about to be discussed may cause controversy" - it is to announce that the topic may cause harm. That the topic may, in fact, trigger the kind of responses in people damaged in that area that fall under the convenient term "PTSD flashback". Or otherwise remind them of damagingly harmful experiences in their lives in potentially harmful ways.
These kinds of reactions are much much worse if hit 'out of the blue' so to speak, so warning people in advance of them is the right thing to do. It may be that they will be unable to deal with it anyway; it may be that they will, with preknowledge and/or advanced preparation, be able to deal with it; it may be that they will be able to participate in the discussion rather than spending all of their energy (and all of next week's energy) remaining calm and 'presentable' - or stop from instinctively retaliating - during the attack.
What are triggers is as diverse as the injured population; which is why people wonder why they are "so prevalent, and for stupid, trivial things". I have my triggers; luckily I am able to deal with them reasonably well, and at worst, I can control myself until I can leave - and the trauma isn't life-shattering (life-altering? yes); also, most of them are the kind of things that people, when they hear about them, will maybe make a joke about it and then say "but yeah, I know this freaks a lot of people out" - AND CHANGE THE TOPIC.
But the little look into the triggerable subculture I get at least gives me the ability to see how triggers on bigger trauma than mine could be more debilitating than mine. So I try, like many others, primum non nocere. I don't always succeed.
Please note that: "...and that the topic is going to be discussed despite that possibility." is certainly true, as it should be.
Kaitlyn: I won't discuss this topic in detail with you, because I can pretty much guarantee that your idea of a loony left liberal is about 3 steps to the right of me, and any attempt to find common ground will be a spectacular failure. I admit to being too liberal for the Liberals, which in Republican North (Alberta) is sometimes a little difficult (people don't talk politics with me at the bridge club, for instance...) But the worst I can say about Hillary Clinton is that she's an establishment politician with all the blemishes that 30 years in politics will apply to anyone. She's a little too cozy with Wall Street for my tastes (in the same way that Vindaloo is a little too hot), and for all their bleating and conniving, ALEC, the Chamber of Congress, and the Koch brothers are going to come out of a Clinton presidency Just Fine Thank You. The best I can say about Trump is that the only important thing to him is winning, and whatever is most likely to look like he's winning is what he will say or do - even if it directly contradicts what he said last week, what his party has said for 50 years, or what is considered acceptable dogwhistles.
In general: were I an American, I'd be a one-issue voter. I have said, more than once, that were I American, I'd be dead. Having said that, many of my friends and colleagues would survive (again, Just Fine, Thank You) any reasonable result of this election. The rest - probably won't survive two Republican nominees to the Supreme Court, just like I wouldn't have survived being in the 51st state through the turn of the century.
When I go to sea, don't fear for me, Fear For The Storm -- Birdie and the Swansong (tSCoSI)