Posted 2014-November-07, 13:05
Sorry if I were unclear.
My first comment was aimed specifically at Gordon's #13 "FYP". I assumed, given the key words "surprisingly often" and the nature of his FYP, that everyone realized I was making yet another smart (potentially insert word here) comment.
When I then stated "In general", I meant "I'm done snarking at/with Gordon specifically, and am now talking to the main point".
When I "talked to people", I was, of course, "talking" to E/W, assuming they had the bright idea of raising the argument in the OP with me. It's a standard "not everyone plays the same system as you do, and that's not a problem legally or ethically" statement to a standard "but that sequence means..." (to you, sure; to most people/experts/whatever, yeah; not necessarily to this pair). The "added" bit was "if I believe they're trying one on, I might point out, with an example, that I wasn't born yesterday; 'good try, though' ".
My belief, from the OP description, was that the opponents had a misunderstanding, and that did not result in a good score to E/W, so their story is an attempt to get what they deserve from the TD. Obviously, were I at the table, table feel, tone, and potentially lack of reporting bias may convince me otherwise - in which case I'll explain. But if I really am getting the "they had a bidding misunderstanding (that isn't unexpected because we're playing an anti-field system (*)), and didn't get a bad score" vibe from them at the table, the "come on, even *you* don't believe the line you're giving me" subtext would come out.
Again my apologies for being unclear. I've been working 14-hour days this past two weeks, and my "restful weekend" was directing 4 sessions...
(*) We don't know where this club is. *If* it's ACBL, then it's very likely that weak NTs and runouts are very uncommon. I know that *I* get a lot of good scores from unfamiliarity of my opponents vs a weak NT or our runouts; while I'm not going to give them back, I do believe that if you play fundamentally unfamiliar methods, that there's going to be more UI-that-means-nothing (or simply "I've never seen this before") or misunderstandings than normal, and if they rub-of-the-green against me, I should eat it just as I would if my system, all on its own, led to a zero-MP +200. The confusion of a fundamentally unfamiliar system (whether I play it because it's unfamiliar or because I think it's better or I enjoy it more) is a part of the system and its wins and losses are system wins and losses.
If the OP is from an area where weak NTs are common, then by all means delete the parenthetical comment.
When I go to sea, don't fear for me, Fear For The Storm -- Birdie and the Swansong (tSCoSI)