mikeh, on 2014-April-15, 09:49, said:
This sort of thinking is prevalent in at least NA society. I think that the idea sounds fine but of course it is like the bible...nobody can live by this credo. Some beliefs are so harmful to others that we should not tolerate those who actively promote them, nor should we be 'fine' with anyone who both holds and acts on them.
Here are some points of view with which I am not fine....and I can't imagine that you are:
a) it is ok for an adult man to sexually express his love and affection for pre-pubescent children
[and 5 more "it is ok for ..." followed by some sick act]
Well, I realize that I am boggling your imagination, but I am fine with all of those
points of view.
- I am not fine with the
acts.
- I strongly disagree with these points of view.
- But I am absolutely fine with someone holding and expressing these points of view.
To get very concrete: In the Netherlands, there used to be a Pedophile Association (called "Martijn"). One of their aims was to persuade law makers to change the laws to be more lenient to pedophilia.
This organization is forbidden now. Many people, including myself, found this ban horrible. That was not because these people (and I) think pedophilia is such a great idea. It was because people thought it was a bad idea to ban having and expressing points of view.
It is also noteworthy that the points of view that you listed at some point in time were well accepted in some or all parts of the world. Who is going to say how human morality will be in 500 years from now? There is no universal, timeless definition of evil. Perhaps pedophilia will be entirely normal and they will laugh at us for denying children sexual pleasure or for being so narrow minded to think that children should be protected. And perhaps they will be horrified by the idea of someone eating a doughnut. (Children are taught in class: In the 21st century, people would actually eat doughnuts. The kids will be as disgusted as the kids of today are when the teacher tells them about the quality of drinking water in the Middle Ages.) Banning points of view is slowing down progress.
To summarize: Beliefs are not harmful to others, no matter how weird, violent, disgusting, revolting, ...add more adjectives to taste..., these beliefs are. Acts can be harmful to others.
To give an example: Your
belief, that some beliefs are harmful, is not harmful. But you
acting on that belief (e.g. not tolerating those who hold beliefs that you find harmful) may well be.
Rik
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