gordontd, on 2012-February-12, 05:39, said:
Having played for years on OKB until I decided not to renew my membership about six months ago, I tried doing this yesterday. The first thing that struck me is that that no-one talks. They don't discuss system, they don't say thankyou, they don't even insult their partners when they walk out in the middle of a hand - which they do so often that you need to keep looking to see if you are still playing with the same person who started the hand as your partner.
I found it hard to imagine anyone arranging a second game, let alone developing a partnership, under these circumstances. Is there more to it than I have seen?
If you seriously wanted to get some sensible games on BBO, I would suggest :
- The problem is that you don't know who anyone actually is on BBO, unless they are a forum poster or use their real name, and lots of people you already know don't do either. So
- find out the BBO nicknames of a number of English players you know, who know you - even if not close friends, people who you know are sensible players, and who also know you can more or less play the game. I can give you a few names, or point you at other people who will give you other names, if you PM me.
- You can make these people your friends (even when they are not online). When you log on, ask one or more of them for a game.
- There used to be a reasonable group of mainly UK-based, mainly current or recent juniors (in mind if not in body) who played a lot of fairly short evening team games. These may well still go on, I'm not sure. (PaulG used to play or watch these quite a lot)
- Play teams matches. These are slightly closer to real bridge than MBC or matchpoint tournaments.
This feels backwards, because you have joined a big international bridge-playing community, and you are playing bridge with people you see at tournaments in England all the time. But as you play more, you find more people to add to your 'friends' list, or friends-of-friends-of-friends list. Fluffy has an advantage over you, because he's a 'star'.That means people who don't know him, who are decent players, are likely to give him a game. As a random logger-on with a name no-one outside the forums and this country would recognise, why should anyone think you are better than the average over-rated expert? That's why I think the best way is start with people who know to give you the time of day.
Alternatively, my real life bridge partner
wastes spends hours on BBO playing moneybridge in its various incarnations. No partnership problems there, but it's a very different game from 'normal' bridge so might cost a bit until you get the hang of it.
{note to readers:while I know how good gordontd is as a player, I play on BBO extremely rarely (about once a year at most), and then only in pre-arranged games. But I think similar advice should be true for anyone who isn't a beginner...}