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Well, I've had enough arguing with people who refuse to grow up. I come here to enjoy myself. It's not funny anymore. Your job is done.
Good night, and good luck.
I suggest you close down the expert forum
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Posted 2015-February-04, 12:33
To Mike and Timo: Sometimes you gotta stop proving you are right and think of WHY it is that it matters whether you are right or not. What are you trying to accomplish?
I don't have a very good way to word my feelings right now, and they may sound completely illogical. But I strongly feel it is unfair to put a long time member and contributor under trial like that, and point out each and every thing he did wrong.
What is it that you are trying to accomplish by proving beyond reasonable doubt that Nuno really thinks he is expert but he won't admit it? We aren't in a court here, you know?
You want him to take his toys and leave? Fine, you're almost done with that.
You want him to apologize? If so, why?
You want him to stick around? Then just stop and leave it as is. It wd have been just great if you both wd have stopped after stating that you want him to stay.
I don't have a very good way to word my feelings right now, and they may sound completely illogical. But I strongly feel it is unfair to put a long time member and contributor under trial like that, and point out each and every thing he did wrong.
What is it that you are trying to accomplish by proving beyond reasonable doubt that Nuno really thinks he is expert but he won't admit it? We aren't in a court here, you know?
You want him to take his toys and leave? Fine, you're almost done with that.
You want him to apologize? If so, why?
You want him to stick around? Then just stop and leave it as is. It wd have been just great if you both wd have stopped after stating that you want him to stay.
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Posted 2015-February-04, 13:38
diana_eva, on 2015-February-04, 12:33, said:
But I strongly feel it is unfair to put a long time member and contributor under trial like that,
Eh... he pretty much invited them to do so as far as I could tell.
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Posted 2015-February-04, 13:50
diana_eva, on 2015-February-04, 12:33, said:
To Mike and Timo: Sometimes you gotta stop proving you are right and think of WHY it is that it matters whether you are right or not. What are you trying to accomplish?
I don't have a very good way to word my feelings right now, and they may sound completely illogical. But I strongly feel it is unfair to put a long time member and contributor under trial like that, and point out each and every thing he did wrong.
What is it that you are trying to accomplish by proving beyond reasonable doubt that Nuno really thinks he is expert but he won't admit it? We aren't in a court here, you know?
You want him to take his toys and leave? Fine, you're almost done with that.
You want him to apologize? If so, why?
You want him to stick around? Then just stop and leave it as is. It wd have been just great if you both wd have stopped after stating that you want him to stay.
I don't have a very good way to word my feelings right now, and they may sound completely illogical. But I strongly feel it is unfair to put a long time member and contributor under trial like that, and point out each and every thing he did wrong.
What is it that you are trying to accomplish by proving beyond reasonable doubt that Nuno really thinks he is expert but he won't admit it? We aren't in a court here, you know?
You want him to take his toys and leave? Fine, you're almost done with that.
You want him to apologize? If so, why?
You want him to stick around? Then just stop and leave it as is. It wd have been just great if you both wd have stopped after stating that you want him to stay.
Valid points.
There are all too many times when I can't seem to stop myself rising to perceived bait. I can see where Timo and I hurt Nuno, and I am not being sarcastic when I say that, and then, having caused that hurt, I felt a need to respond to a post that he made in that state, and thus perpetuated the problem.
I hope Nuno is still at least reading this thread and will accept my apologies....which I hereby offer. I can explain why I wrote my last posts, but I can't excuse writing them. Sorry.
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Posted 2015-February-04, 15:16
mikeh, on 2015-February-04, 10:56, said:
Personally, I would have expected an embarrassed Nuno to point out that he knows how silly it is to claim expert status, but, for example, he has found that claiming, say, advanced or (my own choice, private) makes it tough to find games. He prefers to attack Timo instead, and that is an ugly thing to see. Especially for someone who self-describes as 'a calm and educated guy'
Why would Nuno feel embarrashed?, appart from empathetic embarrashement (not sure if this term exists in english) I don't think he should feel any embarrashement at all.
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Posted 2015-February-04, 15:44
I don't expect that I will ever post a bridge-related comment in the expert sub-forum, however worthy it might be. The intermediate/advanced forum would likely attract responses from expert players, if the point is of interest, no less than if it had been in the expert sub-forum, and in the process I would save myself from a load of potential grief.
Psych (pron. saik): A gross and deliberate misstatement of honour strength and/or suit length. Expressly permitted under Law 73E but forbidden contrary to that law by Acol club tourneys.
Psyche (pron. sahy-kee): The human soul, spirit or mind (derived, personification thereof, beloved of Eros, Greek myth).
Masterminding (pron. m
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ing) tr. v. - Any bid made by bridge player with which partner disagrees.
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2000 years earlier: "morituri te salutant"
"I will be with you, whatever". Blair to Bush, precursor to invasion of Iraq
Psyche (pron. sahy-kee): The human soul, spirit or mind (derived, personification thereof, beloved of Eros, Greek myth).
Masterminding (pron. m
str-mnding) tr. v. - Any bid made by bridge player with which partner disagrees."Gentlemen, when the barrage lifts." 9th battalion, King's own Yorkshire light infantry,
2000 years earlier: "morituri te salutant"
"I will be with you, whatever". Blair to Bush, precursor to invasion of Iraq
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Posted 2015-February-04, 16:20
1eyedjack, on 2015-February-04, 15:44, said:
I don't expect that I will ever post a bridge-related comment in the expert sub-forum, however worthy it might be. The intermediate/advanced forum would likely attract responses from expert players, if the point is of interest, no less than if it had been in the expert sub-forum, and in the process I would save myself from a load of potential grief.
One thing is that you don't want to share your views on the expert forum, and another that you don't want to question experts about theirs. I know mikeh is pleased to answer whenever someone wants him to elaborate, and so are other experts.
Also some posters reply to expert topics starting with "as a non expert I think... " This allows other posters to read their thoughts and point possible flaws in them.
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Posted 2015-February-04, 16:56
Fluffy, on 2015-February-04, 16:20, said:
One thing is that you don't want to share your views on the expert forum, and another that you don't want to question experts about theirs. I know mikeh is pleased to answer whenever someone wants him to elaborate, and so are other experts.
Also some posters reply to expert topics starting with "as a non expert I think... " This allows other posters to read their thoughts and point possible flaws in them.
Also some posters reply to expert topics starting with "as a non expert I think... " This allows other posters to read their thoughts and point possible flaws in them.
?? IOW don't point out possible flaws to someone considered to be an expert? Wow. Not all experts have formed or revised their methods from just their own fertile minds or those of fellow ordained experts.
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Posted 2015-February-04, 18:26
IOW means in other world? because I said no word about experts replying to experts.
Maybe I didn't use proper words on the second paragraph, when intermediates show their thoughts to experts its because they expect the experts to tell them if they are right or not and why.
Maybe I didn't use proper words on the second paragraph, when intermediates show their thoughts to experts its because they expect the experts to tell them if they are right or not and why.
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Posted 2015-February-04, 18:42
can we just delete this topic its just Mr Ace/MikeH/Whereagles issues can't u lot sort it out by PM
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Fluffy, on 2015-February-03, 17:43, said:
The problem is not his perception, but that it trasnpires that you disagree with his self proclamation. I know Nuno has made an effort to not self proclaim himself as Expert, I know that you have also taken care not to do it, not even Justin has self proclaimed himself an Expert. Nobody really does.
Well I Call myself World Master as at least that is something objective. On the other hand Fred used to call me "player with zero bridge credentials"
Well I Call myself World Master as at least that is something objective. On the other hand Fred used to call me "player with zero bridge credentials"
I don't recall ever posting (or thinking) that, but I will take your word for it.
It was a rather stupid and rude thing for me to say. I apologize.
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Posted 2015-February-04, 20:14
<<retracted... no reason for me to get involved here any more than I already have...>>
This post has been edited by Bbradley62: 2015-February-04, 20:25
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cherdano, on 2015-February-04, 08:27, said:
In fact, this is a good example of a post that doesn't belong in the Expert Class Bridge forum. This doesn't have to do anything with whereagles' level, or with the difficulty of the problem. But if a defense problem is posted in the Expert forum, I should be able to assume that we have good signalling agreements, and that partner is an expert and thus making good decisions on how to use them.
I beg to differ.
The criteria is not whether the deal under discussion was played by a well established expert partnership.
A comment like above only shows how little exposure even many experienced players now have to Rubber bridge settings.
An expert problem could arise from a deal where an expert plays with a novice.
The criteria should be whether the Bridge question/issue or solution to a Bridge problem is demanding or contentious even for experts.
The above example fits this criteria.
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Posted 2015-February-05, 03:29
Then you should rename the forum. An expert playing rubber bridge with three intermediates is not "Expert-Class Bridge".
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diana_eva, on 2015-February-04, 12:33, said:
To Mike and Timo: Sometimes you gotta stop proving you are right and think of WHY it is that it matters whether you are right or not. What are you trying to accomplish?
I don't have a very good way to word my feelings right now, and they may sound completely illogical. But I strongly feel it is unfair to put a long time member and contributor under trial like that, and point out each and every thing he did wrong.
What is it that you are trying to accomplish by proving beyond reasonable doubt that Nuno really thinks he is expert but he won't admit it? We aren't in a court here, you know?
You want him to take his toys and leave? Fine, you're almost done with that.
You want him to apologize? If so, why?
You want him to stick around? Then just stop and leave it as is. It wd have been just great if you both wd have stopped after stating that you want him to stay.
I don't have a very good way to word my feelings right now, and they may sound completely illogical. But I strongly feel it is unfair to put a long time member and contributor under trial like that, and point out each and every thing he did wrong.
What is it that you are trying to accomplish by proving beyond reasonable doubt that Nuno really thinks he is expert but he won't admit it? We aren't in a court here, you know?
You want him to take his toys and leave? Fine, you're almost done with that.
You want him to apologize? If so, why?
You want him to stick around? Then just stop and leave it as is. It wd have been just great if you both wd have stopped after stating that you want him to stay.
It is pity we can't upvote posts from admins. This one deserves one.
We've all done it (and will do it again), but proving self right is quite a destructive human trait.
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Posted 2015-February-05, 03:50
cherdano, on 2015-February-05, 03:29, said:
Then you should rename the forum. An expert playing rubber bridge with three intermediates is not "Expert-Class Bridge".
You obviously do not understand that the level of Bridge questions and problems arising at the table have nothing to do with the issue how good the players are and this is a forum about bridge not about people.
I am sure Bridge greats like S.J. Simon (Why you loose at Brige) would heartily disagree with you.
There is an art playing well in a sophisticated long standing partnership, but there is also an art playing well with less gifted partners or in not so well established partnerships.
You can set up great expert defensive play problems, where you get the information your partner is an expert and you can set up just as great an expert defensive play problem with the information your partner can hardly distinguish a king from a jack.
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rhm, on 2015-February-05, 03:50, said:
You obviously do not understand that the level of Bridge questions and problems arising at the table have nothing to do with the issue how good the players are and this is a forum about bridge not about people.
What makes you think that I do not understand this? What you are saying is blindingly obvious, I just wouldn't call such a problem a problem about "Expert-Class Bridge".
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Posted 2015-February-05, 05:45
rhm, on 2015-February-05, 03:50, said:
There is an art playing well in a sophisticated long standing partnership, but there is also an art playing well with less gifted partners or in not so well established partnerships.
You can set up great expert defensive play problems, where you get the information your partner is an expert and you can set up just as great an expert defensive play problem with the information your partner can hardly distinguish a king from a jack.
You can set up great expert defensive play problems, where you get the information your partner is an expert and you can set up just as great an expert defensive play problem with the information your partner can hardly distinguish a king from a jack.
So this is an expert problem?
You have:
♠-
♥AKJ973
♦A654
♣A53
All vul, MPs, your partner can hardly follow suit, and might take a 2♣ opening as weak 2.
pass-pass-??
Lets say you decide to be practical and open 4♥
pass-pass-4♥-pass
4NT-pass-
What now? (you play 4 aces blackwood if you think he is asking for keycards)
I get a lot o expert problems when partner can't recall which cards are high and which ones are not. They are really difficult, and I often get them wrong. The key to them is that you need to force partner to play his winners before he can discard them. Sometimes it is kinda frustrating because there is no real answer:
On lead against 4♥ after you won 2 tricks already you need to find a way to cash 2 more. The problem is you can't, if you lead a spade partner mightl finesse into declarer's queen. But if you try to endplay declarer by leading ♦J he might forget it is high and ruff it with the master trump. What is more likely?
Are these Expert problems?
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Posted 2015-February-05, 05:46
Fluffy, on 2015-February-05, 05:45, said:
So this is an expert problem?
You have:
♠-
♥AKJ973
♦A654
♣A53
All vul, MPs, your partner can hardly follow suit, and might take a 2♣ opening as weak 2.
pass-pass-??
Lets say you decide to be practical and open 4♥
pass-pass-4♥-pass
4NT-pass-
What now? (you play 4 aces blackwood if you think he is asking for keycards)
I get a lot o expert problems when partner can't recall which cards are high and which ones are not. They are really difficult, and I often get them wrong. The key to them is that you need to force partner to play his winners before he can discard them. Sometimes it is kinda frustrating because there is no real answer:
On lead against 4♥ after you won 2 tricks already you need to find a way to cash 2 more. The problem is you can't, if you lead a spade partner mightl finesse into declarer's queen. But if you try to endplay declarer by leading ♦J he might forget it is high and ruff it with the master trump. What is more likely?
Are these Expert problems?
You have:
♠-
♥AKJ973
♦A654
♣A53
All vul, MPs, your partner can hardly follow suit, and might take a 2♣ opening as weak 2.
pass-pass-??
Lets say you decide to be practical and open 4♥
pass-pass-4♥-pass
4NT-pass-
What now? (you play 4 aces blackwood if you think he is asking for keycards)
I get a lot o expert problems when partner can't recall which cards are high and which ones are not. They are really difficult, and I often get them wrong. The key to them is that you need to force partner to play his winners before he can discard them. Sometimes it is kinda frustrating because there is no real answer:
On lead against 4♥ after you won 2 tricks already you need to find a way to cash 2 more. The problem is you can't, if you lead a spade partner mightl finesse into declarer's queen. But if you try to endplay declarer by leading ♦J he might forget it is high and ruff it with the master trump. What is more likely?
Are these Expert problems?
I find these quite entertaining FWIW
We shd put them in the puzzle solvers forum